Protesters burn a Danish flag outside the Danish embassy in Tehran, Iran, during demonstrations against published cartoons depicting the Prophet Muhammad. GETTY IMAGES

The Prophet Muhammad knew well how to turn the other cheek

Date published: 2/9/2006

You do not do evil to those who do evil to you, but you deal with them with forgiveness and kindness.

--Sahih Al-Bukhari

WASHINGTON--That description of Islam's Prophet Muhammad is a summary of how he reacted to personal attacks and abuse.

Islamic traditions include a number of instances of the prophet having the opportunity to strike back at those who attacked him, but refraining from doing so.

These traditions are particularly important as we witness outrage in the Islamic world over cartoons, initially published in a Danish newspaper, that were viewed as intentional attacks on the prophet.

Peaceful and not-so-peaceful protests have occurred from Gaza to Indonesia.

Boycotts have targeted companies based in Denmark, and in other nations that reprinted the offensive caricatures.

We all, Muslims and people of other faiths, seem to be locked into a downward spiral of mutual mistrust and hostility based on self-perpetuating stereotypes.

As Muslims, we need to take a step back and ask ourselves, "What would the Prophet Muhammad do?"

Muslims are taught the tradition of the woman who would regularly throw trash on the prophet as he walked down a particular path. The prophet never responded in kind to the woman's abuse.

Instead, when she one day failed to attack him, he went to her home to inquire about her condition.

In another tradition, the prophet was offered the opportunity to have God punish the people of a town near Mecca who refused the message of Islam and attacked him with stones.

Again, the prophet did not choose to respond in kind to the abuse.

A companion of the prophet, Sahih Al-Bukhari, noted his forgiving disposition. He said: "I served the prophet for ten years, and he never said 'uf' [a word indicating impatience] to me and never blamed me by saying, 'Why did you do so or why didn't you do so?'"

Even when the prophet was in a position of power, he chose the path of kindness and reconciliation.

When he returned to Mecca after years of exile and personal attacks, he did not take revenge on the people of the city, but instead offered a general amnesty.

Date published: 2/9/2006