Cory Fore, 11, of Stafford County has Asperger's syndrome, a type of high-functioning autism. MIKE MORONES/THE FREE LANCE-STAR
Asperger's syndrome can be an 'invisible disability'
Date published: 6/4/2006
By DONYA ARIAS
HE CAFETERIA at Margaret Brent Elementary School in North Stafford is a lively and raucous place, echoing with the loud chatter of kids enjoying each other's company, if not the food.
But on a recent afternoon, 11-year-old Cory Fore sat quietly and stared down at his lunch of a breaded chicken sandwich, yellow corn kernels and chocolate milk. The boy next to Cory smiled and chewed heartily, but the two might as well have been sitting at separate tables. Cory contemplated his lunch tray as if it were a complex puzzle, ignoring the boy beside him.
Often seemingly in a world of his own even in the midst of lunchroom chaos, Cory, 11, has Asperger's syndrome. The condition, also known as high-functioning autism, is linked to normal to high intelligence but difficulty with social and communication skills.
While Cory has a great chance of growing into an independent adult, his prospects for holding down a steady job, making friends and settling down to married life are slimmer than average because of what his school psychologist calls Cory's "invisible disability."
A mystery revealed
His mother had a nagging feeling something was wrong when Cory wasn't speaking by age 2. Billie Bailey said if she'd been a more experienced mom, she "would have known something was up sooner."
After a screening by Spotsylvania County child development specialists, Cory qualified for and began speech therapy. One therapist noticed that Cory had lax ligaments, or floppiness in his feet and ankles, and the muscle tone in is mouth seemed "off." It was an early clue, but nothing came of that observation. A neurologist's exam also was inconclusive.
Meanwhile, Cory struggled to get along in day care, had no respect for authority and was described by his teachers as "bouncing off the walls." When he was 4, a psychiatrist suspected Cory had attention deficit hyperactivity disorder. Bailey didn't buy that diagnosis and refused to put Cory on Ritalin, thinking he was too young for the medication.