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Hundreds honor local Superman

February 4, 2008 12:16 am

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North Stafford High School senior Justin Whitaker, who is battling T-cell lymphoma, smiles during a graduation ceremony held for him at the school on Saturday. lo0204justingrad3pc.jpg

Justin Whitaker, center, and his girlfriend Courtney Crews join fellow seniors for a funny group photo during a fundraiser for Whitaker at North Stafford High School on Saturday, Feb. 2, 2008. Whitaker is battling T-cell lymphoma and was given a private graduation ceremony at the end of the fundraising event. lo0204justin3pc.jpg

Justin Whitaker walks with his girlfriend of four years, Courtney Crews, at North Stafford High School on Friday. lo0204justin4pc.jpg

Justin Whitaker looks through his baseball memorabilia collection in his bedroom in North Stafford. Whitaker took on the nickname Superman after wearing Superman boxers during a bone-marrow transplant in November of 2007.

BY CATHY DYSON
BY CATHY DYSON

Almost 500 members of the North Stafford High School community turned out Saturday night to support one of their own in his battle against cancer.

The setting could have been somber, but it seemed more like a wedding reception instead. Justin Whitaker, the 18-year-old who has inspired others with his positive attitude, greeted every person who lined up to see him.

His long-time girlfriend, Courtney Crews, was at his side. She and other marketing students and Student Council Association members came up with the idea of a dinner and talent show to honor Justin. Two teachers--Leigh Swift and Nicole Hagermann--pulled the massive event together in less than two weeks.

Justin and Courtney thanked people for coming. Justin gave bear hugs and pumped fists with classmates he'd known since elementary school. He threw his arms around the shoulders of Robbie Pierhalla and Sean Deasy, fellow seniors who recently had Justin's initials tattooed on their left arms.

"Basically, it's our way of showing him, no matter what happens, we'll always be close," Robbie said.

Those who never met the student got the same reception. Justin gave them hugs, asked a few questions about their interests and smiled--hundreds of times, as digital cameras flashed.

"It's just amazing," said Zac Briley, one of Justin's closest friends. "In a big school like this, I hear people every day that I never heard of, but everybody knows Justin. I don't think there's a person in the school who doesn't know his name."

Or what he's been through since June 2006.

Justin was 16 and a popular member of the baseball team when he was first diagnosed with non-Hodgkins T-cell lymphoma. The cancer affects cells that fight infection, but the student who came to be known as "Superman" wasn't about to let it beat him.

Months after his diagnosis, he started going to baseball practice, despite being on medicine that made it hard to walk. He got stronger every day and was back on the team the next spring. The community rallied to help with bills.

Then the cancer knocked Justin down again.

His condition got so bad last fall, his father, Craig, said he'd die without a bone-marrow transplant. Justin had that surgery in November. Things looked shaky at first, but Justin rebounded. In a January interview, he wanted to tell others: "You should never give up."

A few days later, Justin was back in the hospital. Scans that had been clear the week before showed the cancer had gone into his kidneys and throughout his bone marrow. Doctors said he'd last a week without chemotherapy.

So, Justin has spent most of 2008 getting five different types of aggressive drugs to fight the cancer. Last week alone, he had three transfusions of blood and platelets, just to keep him alive.

But as he worked the North Stafford crowd Saturday night, the "Man of Steel" put aside his physical issues. At one point, his hands were shaking and his feet--tucked into new size-14 dress shoes--were swollen. His mouth was bone dry, and as he tried to thank everyone for their support, his speech was a little slurred.

He had trouble finding the words, as he stood in front of the auditorium and twirled the microphone in his hand. He told his classmates they were the best and said, "I love you guys I love you guys."

Clearly, the feeling was mutual.

"There is phenomenal support, not only from his class but in the entire school and community," said Sarah Back, a North Stafford parent. "This kid is definitely loved."

Almost every element of the school was represented. The cafeteria was decorated with posters made by art students. They sketched Superman with Justin's face and wearing a lime-green cape, the color that represents his cancer. The signs read, "Justin, you're our hero."

A third of the senior class attended. Young men wore white shirts and ties on a Saturday night and young women put on high heels and had a class picture taken in the gym.

Baseball players strapped on plastic capes and toy guitars and sang about Superman and kryptonite. They got a standing ovation, but so did Allie Starbuck after her ballet solo, and Frank Berill, who wrote a song about Justin's time not running out yet.

The crowd cheered as vigorously for Deborah and Philip Me, students who gave a classical performance on piano and violin, as they did for the school's step and dance teams.

Those behind the scenes were just as enthusiastic. Teacher Pam McCluskey cooked all the pasta dishes so the sponsors wouldn't have to cater the event. Students from Colonial Forge High School helped serve, and parents of athletes worked alongside mothers and fathers of honor students.

"You would not believe how many people have volunteered to help," said Hagermann, the senior-class sponsor.

Justin's fourth- and fifth-grade teachers from Park Ridge Elementary School showed up Saturday night. So did Michael Wolf, a Colonial Forge junior who went to elementary school with him. He said Justin has friends throughout the Commonwealth District.

"I just admire Justin for all the hardships he's been through," Michael said, "and I can see that everybody here feels the same way."

Cathy Dyson: 540/374-5425
Email: cdyson@freelancestar.com




Saturday's dinner and show was planned for late February, but got pushed up when Justin Whitaker's condition worsened. So did other events.

The senior's goal in recent months has been to walk down the aisle and get his diploma. Principal Thomas Nich-ols donned his official graduation robe and awarded Justin the parchment Saturday night in a private ceremony. Justin's counselor, Diana Smithey, also brought her gradu-ation robe and stood beside Justin for more pictures. She's called the family every other day for months to check on Justin and his father, Craig.

The principal also gave the family a $3,000 check. That's money school clubs raised in the first semester and does not include Saturday's take. Donations were still being counted.

Teachers Nicole Hager- mann and Melissa Allen put together a Presidents' Weekend package for Justin and six friends and family members. All their expenses are paid for three nights, as they'll stay at Kent Island, Md., and go on tours at Camden Yards and Annapolis. Businesses donated their services when they heard Justin's story, Allen said.

The Make-A-Wish Foundation will send Justin and his younger brother Jordan and two adults to Hawaii. That was supposed to happen in June but also has been pushed up to March.

Justin and his family have been overwhelmed by the generosity of those around them.

"It makes me feel great to know somebody cares," Justin said. "It gives me more strength inside."

Donations can be sent to the Justin Whitaker Cancer Fund at North Stafford High School, 839 Garrisonville Road, Stafford, Va. 22554.

The 24th annual oyster roast at White Oak Equipment will benefit Justin's medical fund. The event begins at 3 p.m. on Saturday, March 1.




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