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Germanna Community College student body president perseveres despite severe health challenges

 Germanna Student Government Association President Jenny Stone works on a pastel of her son Daniel as fellow student Jodie Clowes looks on during a recent drawing class at GCC's Spotsylvania County campus.
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Date published: 12/20/2012

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"The first thing I said was, promise me that you're going to finish school," she recalled. "Don't just have a job. Have a career. That was top on my list."

And in January, her two sons--21-year-old Daniel and 20-year-old Christian--will be attending Germanna with her.

They dread the thought of winding up in a class with their mother, she said. One wants to avoid the attention. The other doesn't want to compete with his mom.

But Stone said she's too enthusiastic about her studies to be distracted by her boys.

"There's something about the learning process that fires up your mind," she said. "I'm not just a learner; I consume."

OVERCOMING OBSTACLES

Jenny Stone's goal is to become a marriage and family counselor focusing on helping police officers and their families deal with the stresses of a law-enforcement career.

She made that decision after conversations with a neighbor who struggled with what he saw on the job and whose engagement collapsed in the process.

Stone knows that getting the credentials she needs will mean earning a master's degree and that she'll be nearing 50 by the time she finishes, but that only sharpens her resolve.

"My career is going to be short so I need it to be good, so I don't have time to waste," she said.

Her instructors say she has the attitude to get her where she wants to go.

"She's got a lot of ability and a lot of ambition," said Ed King, an adjunct professor of art. "I like her tenaciousness."

He's aware of her medical challenges and said that makes her all the more impressive.

"You see people that just do nothing with their life and then she's got severe health problems and she's trying to do the best she can with what she's got," King said.

J. Gayle Wolfe, a psychology professor who runs the paraprofessional counseling program, said Stone's interest in working with law enforcement poses challenges, but with changes she's seeing in society, they aren't insurmountable.

People have grown increasingly accepting of the idea of seeking help to deal with life's stresses and look more on counselors as coaches, Wolfe said.

She's also seeing a lot more men come for help than in decades past.

EARNING RESPECT

Camille Mustachio, an English instructor, has seen Stone's health challenges firsthand, which deepened her respect for Stone's perseverance.

During the fall semester of 2011, Stone came to Mustachio before class one day and said she wasn't feeling well and wanted her to have her husband's contact information in case something happened.

Stone's premonition proved accurate. She had a cardiac event in class that prompted a 911 call and hospitalization. But Stone returned to class days later.

"She's sticking with it. She's not letting any obstacles stand in her way. It's inspiring," Mustachio said.

"Seeing her in the hall reminds me to remind other students to continue on their journey as well, without letting any obstacles stop them."

Whenever Stone comes to the end of her life, she hopes that's what people will remember.

"I want my sons to say, she did everything she wanted to do and she lived life to the fullest," Stone said.

Pamela Gould: 540/735-1972
Email: pgould@freelancestar.com


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